About

So you wanna know more about this mystery writer. Well, as I tend to shy away from focusing on me (it seems to always be easier to focus on others instead), let’s just say who I am instead of what I am. Part of my identity transitioned when I embraced Islam as a way of life in 2003 but of course I had a life of 23 years before that including being born into Buddhism, and adopted Christianity, hence my hybrid identity and culture of both being a Canadian and Muslim at the same time with struggles within each as I aim to keep a foothold in both, as well as my breadth of other faiths that allow me to engage with a variety of people including one of my closest friends who is an atheist. It’s not easy being me, but I’m sure it’s not easy being human in general. :D

With that said, I really don’t fit into any category and realize I belong in one entirely of my own. Yes, I was married. Check to that being Chinese. And ditto for having moved to a city out West in Canada. Nope, I don’t have any dependents, although I am considering foster parenting which seems more and more daunting by the day, and yes I am allergic to pets but not photos of them, hence my love for cuddly kittens lately, and I’m not sure why.

Lastly, I’m a Career Coach because well, I had like 30 jobs of my own for the past 15 years of my working life. Okay, fine, 22 years of my working life. I enjoy volunteering because my day job is brutal at times, although I’m hoping that changes to a more supportive, inclusive, and positive environment. And for some reason I haven’t been jaded enough to quit yet in my volunteerism as a crisis centre lines support.

So, enough about me, tell me about you! If you would like to learn more about my day to day mullings, please feel free to read my posts, and my apologies in advance for any thoughts I share that may offend others. But mainly, they are rather reflective of my journey along this life.

Thank you for reading.

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    • Jazakullah khairun for your support. There are so many people who have been through so much worse, and insha’allah, in dumping out my garbage, perhaps I can be of better support to others. May Allah make it of ease for everyone, and jazakullah khairun for sharing your warmth. :D

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    • Thanks so much for the encouragement! I learned from “Thinking About a Memoir” written by Abigail Thomas. She really encourages to dig deep, and to just say it like it is. Thank you for the kind words. :D

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  4. It’s great that you found a religion and believe in it. Just remember, a religion is not a contest: it’s supposed to be personal, based on one’s own faith and feeling. There should be no “keeping up” in a religion, because the religion should mesh with you. :)

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    • Thank you for commenting so positively on the blog as it’s definitely not easy to write from the heart. I hope that you have a chance to write more yourself too on whatever topics you like as writing for yourself is a great way to get things out.

      May you be most blessed too!

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    • Awww.. wow.. that’s pretty amazing as I think your life is super adventurous as you dare to push past your fears. That, is the real adventure in life. Be bold, and continue to write. :D

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    • Wooo!! Wowww!!! Thank you sooo much! I just took a vacation from my laptop, and how pleasant is this! Thank you soo much! Wowwee! I’m looking forward to catching up on all the blogs I have missed… oy!

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    • Thank YOU for becoming a reader too! Thank you soo much for the kind words. It’s funny, I have never thought of myself as a writer, but then I realize we must give ourselves these titles, because of who true they are.

      I can’t wait to see more of your photos too! :D

      Pink.

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    • Thank you sooo much! I think I suffer from Award Fatigue, (spoiled? Yes, I am), so like, I tend to just collect them on my Awards page as it’s easier. But then I feel bad for not spreading the joy. :D

      Pink.

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  17. It’s graduation day for you my lovely PINK! I have my dress ready! Close your eyes and imagine me and everyone else sitting in the front row cheering and clapping for you on stage……and know that we’re hugging you in our hearts as well.
    HUGZZZZ to you my beautiful friend
    Lee

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  18. Hi! I noticed that you have been following my blog for a while now and that you’ve visited often, thank you so much Pink (if I may call you that;) I really look forward to reading your posts. I like it that you’re very open-minded, I’m Hindu and I’m interested in Buddhism and I also consider myself Christian. People are different, we may not agree with each-other’s beliefs but we can respect one another, though there’s a line …
    I’m sorry for rambling but it’s one of those things I can’t help :)
    ~Devina

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    • You’re so cool! One of my closest friends is just like you! I definitely think we are a blend of many. I grew up with Buddhism, had converted to Christianity, and now I’m Muslim with a close friend who is an atheist. So like, yeah, I definitely see the blend of similarities we all have beyond titles. Our hearts unite us. :D So great to meet you!

      Pink.

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    • Wowwweee! Really! That’s amazing! I’m undeserving, really. I think I blogged like only once a month this year. I am sooo honoured! Wowee! This definitely cheered up a fairly low week. Thank you. This really made my day. Wowee! And thank you soo much. I had a tough time teaching today, ended up crying and upset. Thank you. Thank you so much for being that golden ray of sunshine :D

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  26. ”It always seems impossible until it’s done” ~ Nelson Mandela
    I like this quote you wrote above.
    Yes, so many times we think it is impossible, but it is possible. And I believe:
    nothing is impossible with God!

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    • Holy wowee! OMG! That’s amaaazingggg!!! You have really inspired me to take my photography to a new level including contributing to local organizations my free photography. Really, you are incredible. I’m so inspired by you!!! Blush**

      Pink.

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    • Wowweeee!! What an honor! I really needed that. thank you… I’ve been behind in blog readings as well, I’ve been doing some photography events volunteering, woo! But like, um, lots of work.. eek! I was struggling with self-confidence today, but then I thought of your encouragement and it helped push me forward. Thank you for being that continuous light. :D

      Pink.

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      • WOOHOO!!! So proud of you Pink :D You’re going to be an amazing photographer! I can’t wait to see your photos whenever you’re ready to show them :P Also, if you need any help, not that I’m anything special, but you can send me some photos if you ever have any questions and I’ll try to help as much as possible LOL

      • Wooo! That would be great! thus far, I realize my SB400 flash isn’t strong enough for lower lit rooms such as presentations with powerpoint. I thought I would eventually upgrade to the SB700, but this will take awhile. I’m also shy in approaching people, which I hope I get over. It’s not easy… any tips are appreciated… :D

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